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5 Ways For Fathers To Create Spare Time For Themselves | CaregiverAsia

[fa icon="calendar"] Nov 9, 2017 5:24:48 PM / by Teo Youliang Hakim

Can’t seem to catch up with your favorite television show as a new parent? Or maybe you’ve been turning down outings with your friends due to a hectic schedule at home. For fathers trying to create their own spare time, they can surely relate to these busy situations on a daily basis.

Fortunately, there are experienced fathers out there who’ve gone through the same time constraints and gathered their own little tricks of the trade. If you’re a struggling dad that’s looking to maximize your limited time, here are some ways you can try out without sacrificing your family time!

Spare time for fathers are hard to come by due to their family responsibilities.

1. Find Pockets Of Spare Time

As you progress in your daily life as a new dad, there’ll definitely be downtime periods at certain occasions. When your newborn’s asleep in the cot, or under the care of your wife, take this given time to do something that you’ve always wanted to do. Catch up with the latest happenings among your friends with a phone call, or get out and indulge in your own hobbies.

Just make sure not to extend these pockets to the point where you’re neglecting your duty as a father. It’s great to take a break from your responsibilities once in awhile, but making it a common occurrence is often a warning sign on the stability of your marriage.

2. Making Full Use Of Every Second

With such limited time at hand, it would make sense to utilize every second in your free periods. Don’t spend your spare time on a single item, try multitasking where you can. Give your mom that long awaited catch-up call while you’re watching your favorite soccer team going at it on television.

This rule doesn’t even have to apply on your proper breaks as well, make use of your tiny intervals where you’re truly alone. When you’re commuting to work or in the shower, these are great places to reflect on certain decisions that you’ve made.

3. Create A Schedule

When you’ve become more familiar with your daily schedule as a father, you’ll notice the recurring periods where you’ll have spare time. Make a note on things where you’re certain you’ll be free, such as running errands to the grocery store or nap times for the baby. Make sure not to leave any possible events untouched, even toilet breaks if you can predict them!

Once you have everything written down, come up with a regular schedule where you can plan your activities accordingly. Instead of an impromptu trip to the supermarket, you can set up a quick coffee with friends after grabbing the box of diapers and milk powder that you need off the shelves.

Every second counts when you’re looking to maximize your spare time as a father.

4. Splitting Duties With Your Wife

Never forget that you’re not alone in taking care of the baby. When you feel under pressure with your caregiving duties, sit down with your wife and talk it out to see if you can split the work evenly and fairly.

Take note of each other’s schedule and create a rotation. On certain nights, you’ll be caring for your child while your wife gets a much-deserved break, and vice versa on the other nights. In that way, you’ll have a fixed allocated spare time throughout the week where you can plan your activities without interruptions.

5. Bring In External Help

There might be days where your parental responsibilities can feel overwhelming, even with the help of your spouse. The daily duties of taking care of a newborn baby will prove to be a challenge, especially for first-time parents with no knowledge on what to expect. If you’re at the end of your tether, then perhaps it’s time to bring in someone else who can help out.

For starters, your parents are usually the first candidates. However, if this option isn’t available for any reason, there are confinement nannies and babysitters right here at CaregiverAsia that’ll serve just as well in taking care of your child.

Have these tips helped you free up some much needed time? Undoubtedly, your life will surely change when you become a dad. Gone will be the days where you’ll be staying out late with your buddies, but rather, at home taking care of your newborn with your wife by your side.

However, every second spent with your family doesn’t have to mean the end of the world. You’ll come to realize that your wife and child will slowly grow to become the centerpiece of your life. From the sleepless nights and cries of babyhood, to watching them walk and speaking their first word, it’s a unique experience that’s irreplaceable.

And should you ever feel the need to go out and rediscover your youth on certain days or want a date night with your wife, we have you covered. Get a babysitter from CaregiverAsia here!

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Teo Youliang Hakim

Written by Teo Youliang Hakim

A CaregiverAsia writer, Hakim loves nothing better than to spruce up informative content for the readers, especially if it helps to make the world a better place. Other than that, he also enjoys the occasional chocolate chip cookie or catching reruns of F.R.I.E.N.D.S on the telly!